This is an email I wrote to a few of my friends last week. One of my friends told me I should blog it, so I am..
Here’s the great email.

Ladies,
It was great to see you guys today. I was glad I came. Drew needed to see other people and so did I. I need adult conversation, especially today.
Today is the dreaded WEDNESDAY for me.
This is the “homework from he!& day”. The kids come home with a ton of homework.
4 kids around the table all doing their homework at 4pm. 2 of them need to read out loud, the other 2 don’t want to hear reading out loud. All of them need me to help, or at least “mother” needs to be readily available to answer questions if they get stuck. Usually the baby needs attention. And Drew, well Drew- he’s 1, need I say more…
They all come home needing to eat a snack because they are starving. All the boys need to pee. They can barely get their stuff off as they run towards the bathroom trying to take each other out just to get there first. After home work is done, its time for chores, which they complain about every day. After taking twice as long to do them because they have complained about the chores is dinner, and hopefully I haven’t burn anything.
Daniel usually walks in the door 6:15ish, we eat, or should I say shovel spaghetti down. Yes every Wednesday is spaghetti because its quick and easy. But I can screw that up to. I have burned the garlic bread- yes it’s happened more than once!!
The Hills at the table—
The kids are all talking to him at once because they know they only have so much time before he leaves again. I usually sit at the opposite end of the table staring across at him, wanting to talk but I can’t. Why can’t I talk? Because they are all Hughlett’s and so they are all just like me. They need to talk. There are no quiet meals at our house. I don’t even know what that’s like.
Nolan needs to tell him about his latest invention,
Lucas needs to talk about how someone hurt his feelings at school,
Zoey needs to talk about how very violin is too small, or how I wouldn’t let her hang out with her friends, or whatever dramatic teenage girl talks about,
Jack is freaking out about how something is due tonight for scouts and he can’t find his scout shirt and book.
Drew just wants daddy to hold him so he is usually crying in his high chair. Holding a kid and trying to eat is quite funny to watch I must say
As for Berkley she is usually sleeping (thank goodness)
After we eat the grub I made, Daniel hands over Drew, who is hysterically crying because he wants his daddy. We walk to the window and wave goodbye. And then he drives away off into the sunset with the 2 oldest kids, Zoey and Jack-my 2 helpers. I want to cry but that just takes time so instead I turn around look at the tornado that hit my house, take a deep breath and walk down the hallway to start on baths.
The good thing about today is I can usually get Drew, Nolan and Lucas in bed by 7:30. After they are all snuggled in, I walk back down the hallway and through the kitchen that is a complete disaster, to the family room to my baby. We sit on the couch and stare at the messy kitchen, I don’t know what she is wishing but I am wishing I had a maid to clean it up. And then I remember I do have a maid- IT’S ME!!!! How lucky am I? Sometimes I clean it and sometimes I just sit there and do nothing, absolutely nothing….
A piece of advice to all mother’s without school aged children just yet. Remember these 2 things:
- Do not try to call a mother between 4-8pm on a weekday. Our lives are just crazy!
- Definitely no drive by’s just to say HI. A mother of school aged children is not allowed to sit and relax between the hours of 4-8pm, let alone chit chat.
If you come to my house, you will probably be helping out with homework, fixing my dinner, feeding my baby, changing a diaper, breaking up a fight, helping out with chores, or cleaning up a 1 year old mess (because he was left alone for 2 minutes while you helped another with homework)
I promise that one day when this is happening to you, you will think of me and laugh. If you aren’t laughing, call me and I can talk you through it
Wednesday are totally crazy, stressful, and tiresome. Pretty much every Wednesday I wake up tired. You guys saw me today, I was looking rough!! The only thing that gets me through it is to laugh.
I often think what Joseph B Wirthlin said in the closing of one of his talks—
“Although my mother has long since passed to her eternal reward, her words are always with me. I still remember her advice to me given on that day long ago when my team lost a football game: “Come what may, and love it.” I know why there must be opposition in all things. Adversity, if handled correctly, can be a blessing in our lives. We can learn to love it.
As we look for humor, seek for the eternal perspective, understand the principle of compensation, and draw near to our Heavenly Father, we can endure hardship and trial. We can say, as did my mother, “Come what may, and love it.””
Ladies, have a wonderful afternoon. I am glad I was able to talk to each one of you today…
Senta
PS- Emily you are looking especially beautiful today. You look super gorgeous today on your due date!!